15 Things a Writer Should Never Do

15Based on interviews with authors over the years, conferences, editing dozens of issues of Writer’s Digest, and my own occasional literary forays and flails, here are some points of consensus and observations: 15 of them, things anyone who lives by the pen (or seeks to) might consider. It is, like most things in the writing world, a list in progress—and if you’ve got your own Dos or Don’ts to add, I’d love to hear them in the Comments.

1. Don’t assume there is any single path or playbook writers need to follow. (Or, for that matter, a definitive superlative list of Dos and Don’ts …) Simply put: You have to do what works best for you. Listen to the voices in your head, and learn to train and trust them. More often than not, they’ll let you know if you’re on the right path. People often bemoan the surplus of contradictory advice in the writing world—but it’s there because there really is no yellow-brick road, and a diversity of perspectives allows you to cherry-pick what uniquely suits you and your abilities.

2. Don’t try to write like your idols. Be yourself. Yeah, it sounds a bit cheesy, but it’s true: The one thing you’ve got that no one else does is your own voice, your own style, your own approach. Use it. (If you try to pretend to write like anyone else, your readers will know.) Perhaps author Allegra Goodman said it best: “Know your literary tradition, savor it, steal from it, but when you sit down to write, forget about worshiping greatness and fetishizing masterpieces.”

3. Don’t get too swept up in debates about outlining/not outlining, whether or not you should write what you know, whether or not you should edit as you go along or at the end—again, just experiment and do what works best for you. The freedom that comes with embracing this approach is downright cathartic.

4. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket when it comes to pitching something—always be working on your next book or idea while you’re querying. Keeping your creative side in gear while focusing on the business of selling your work prevents bigger stalls in your writing life down the road.

5. Don’t be unnecessarily dishonest, rude, hostile—people in the publishing industry talk, and word spreads about who’s great to work with, and who’s not. Publishing is a big business, but it’s a pretty incestuous business. Keep those family reunions gossip free.

6. Don’t ever hate someone for the feedback they give you. No piece of writing is universally beloved. Nearly every beta reader, editor or agent will have a different opinion of your work, and there’s value in that. Accept what nuggets you believe are valid, recognize the recurring issues you might want/need to address, and toss the edits your gut tells to toss. (Unless the changes are mandatory for a deal—in which case you’ll need to do some deeper soul searching.) Be open to criticism—it will make you a better writer.

7. … But, don’t be susceptible to the barbs of online trolls—you know, those people who post sociopathic comments for the sake of posting sociopathic comments. That’s what trolls do: they troll (on Amazon, Goodreads, Twitter, etc.). It’s not personal. Which means the message at the core of their words means as little as the 0s and 1s used to code it. Ignore them heartily.

8. Don’t ever lower you guard when it comes to the basics: Good spelling, healthy mechanics, sound grammar. They are the foundations that keep our writing houses from imploding … and our queries from hitting the recycling bin before our stories can speak for themselves.

9. Don’t ever write something in an attempt to satisfy a market trend and make a quick buck. By the time such a book is ready to go, the trend will likely have passed. The astronomical amount of romantic teenage vampire novels in desk drawers is more than a nuisance—it’s a wildfire hazard. Write the story that gives you insomnia.

10. Don’t be spiteful about another writer’s success. Celebrate it. As author Amy Sue Nathan recalled when detailing her path to publication in the upcoming July/August 2013 issue of WD: “Writers I knew were landing book deals and experiencing other things I was working toward, so I made a decision to learn from them instead of begrudging them. I learned that another author’s success doesn’t infringe on mine.”

11. Don’t ever assume it’s easy. Writers with one book on shelves or one story in print often had to keep stacking up unpublished manuscripts until they could reach the publisher’s doorbell. (The exception being those lucky 19-year-old savants you sometimes hear about, or, say, Snooki. But, hey, success still isn’t guaranteed—after all, Snooki’s Gorilla Beach: A Novel has only sold 3,445 copies.) Success is one of those things that’s often damn near impossible to accurately predict unless you already have it in spades.

12. Don’t forget to get out once in a while. Writing is a reflection of real life. It’s all too easy to sit too long at that desk and forget to live it.

13. Don’t ever discount the sheer teaching power (and therapeutic goodness) of a great read. The makeshift MFA program of countless writers has been a well-stocked bookshelf.

14. Don’t be afraid to give up … on a particular piece. Sometimes, a story just doesn’t work, and you shouldn’t spend years languishing on something you just can’t fix. (After all, you can always come back to it later, right?)

15. But, don’t ever really give up. Writers write. It’s what we do. It’s what we have to do. Sure, we can all say over a half-empty bottle of wine that we’re going to throw the towel in this time, but let’s be honest: Very few of us ever do. And none of us are ever really all that surprised when we find ourselves back at our computers, tapping away, and waiting for that electric, amazing moment when the pebble of a story shakes loose and begins to skitter down that great hill …


Image By Marcus Quigmire [CC-BY-SA-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons.


Zachary Petit is the senior managing editor of Writer’s Digest magazine. He finally caved in and joined Twitter, and is now hopelessly distracted: @ZacharyPetit. 

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36 thoughts on “15 Things a Writer Should Never Do

  1. Whitney R. Bagwell

    Excellent guidance Zach! Going outside to the actual life is excellent, because outside there lifestyles those whom we want to discuss our information. Having try out visitors is a must, the issue us that they always gives views that are very different one from the other, because they want your tale the way they would really like it. The center direction is always the best, after all we want to be study by many, then we should pay attention to guidance while maintaining our own speech.
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  3. Lemonshark

    The only point I would add to this list is to take good care of yourself. Don’t forget about your health while you are toiling away on your story. Take a walk, eat healthy food, and spend time with friends and family. Then, by all means, go back to your story with inspiration anew.

  4. Mia McKimmy

    Great article. I’d like to add another point. I’m a new writer trying to decide which publishing route to take. All the information and opinions whether to go traditional or self-publishing can quickly become confusing, with the experts arguing their route is best. The only thing we can do is educate ourselves on each publishing path, and make the decision that’s best for us, our needs, and our lives.

    Mia McKimmy

  5. Misty

    Don’t think it too much before you write it. This is the mother of all blockers. It’s never going to be perfect so just go and don’t stop.

  6. cecalli

    Great post and great advice. Writers should never forget that the outer world is where we are supposed to spread our ideas. Keeping balance between being yourself and listening all the advices that beta readers gives is a difficult challenge, but I think its the wisest attitude.

  7. Bookwrm89

    Great article! I especially like the reminders of #’s 11-15. I’ve been working on the first book in a series since my daughter was in eighth grade (she’s now done with school by a few years and celebrating her first wedding anniversary this month). The book has changed ideas several times since I first envisioned it and still going nowhere. I gave up working on it last year and immediately got an idea for one of the other books in the series. I know I’ll get back to the other one someday but for now I’m following where the Muse leads me.

  8. msmarcie

    I’d like to add #16: Writers should look at other writers as cohorts, not competition. There’s enough work for all of us AND we are not good at everything. Do yourself a favor – reduce your stress and bless another writer with assignments you cannot do.

  9. djos

    Item 16. Write about something you know.. Put another way, do not attempt to write about something you know nothing about. Fantasy and fiction have their place, but they should have a touchstone with reality. . .

  10. cecalli

    Great advice Zach! Going outside to the real world is great, because outside there lives those whom we want to share our messages. Having beta readers is a must, the problem us that they always gives opinions that are very different one from the other, because they want your story the way they would love it. The middle path is always the best, after all we want to be read by many, then we should listen to advice while keeping our own voice.

  11. Joshua Rigsby

    #12 is especially important. We writers tend to live so much in our heads that we miss opportunities for life experience and personal growth. Honestly, you won’t have anything to write about if you don’t get out and live a little. Physical exercise is vital too. Like it or not, your mind is inexorably linked to your body. The better shape you are in, the more creative you’ll be.

    Fortunately, full-time writing lends itself easily to scheduling work out and social times. http://joshuarigsby.com/2013/06/10/stay-at-home-dad-workout-plan-5-tips/

  12. rampmg

    Good article. I would add a flip side to #10: Don’t be discouraged by other writers’ failures. I am new at trying to get published for fiction and if I paid attention to all the nay sayers I’d give up right now. I had the same experience when I started my business 16 years ago. I didn’t buy into it then either.

  13. lstammerwriter

    Love it!

    I’d like to add:

    (1) It’s never too late to start writing. (or to start AGAIN)
    (2) You are never too old to write a book and/or get published.

    1. Zachary Petit Post author

      Thanks, lstammer. And I agree totally – excellent additions. Wish I’d included those! Lee Child was almost 40 when he got fired from his day job and started writing novels. The writer Harry Bernstein published his first book at 96 (!). (Someone recently wrote an essay for us on Bernstein, and it was fascinating.)

  14. lstammerwriter

    Great article. Two more good thing to remember:

    (1) It’s never to late to start writing.
    (2) You are never too old to write a book and/or get published.

  15. William

    I agree with what schuylersr says, the advice can be distilled down, the word count of your editor must surely be ‘on’ in spades.

    To ignore a fact does not make it less of a fact, IMO, it makes the person ignoring the fact more akin to that of a politician. By my reading of the responses you posted, you missed your calling. But we MUST move on!

    Your use of point Nr7 is well used although I fail to see either Mialie or myself as a troll. You can choose to ignore Mialie and myself but speaking for myself I’m used to that. You are obviously connected to writing well enough to take a little heat and I’m certain you’ve grown thick skin by now. No doubt criticism from the “commoners” [those NOT published or connected] has become like water off a duck’s back.

    Regarding the flaw you make in point Nr8, it’s NOT ”youR’ and the correction (albiet weak) ‘you’ is not much better. Both pass the spell check system, however, neither hits the mark of the point you’re trying to ‘teach’.

    I intend no negativity here but only wish to say, I’m sure it’s “good to be the king” and so well to be connected. Flaws are still flaws by any label.

  16. schuylersr

    Good article but the advice can be simplified to 1. Be yourself; 2. Keep writing; 3. Treat criticism as a teaching aid; 4. Read; and 5. Never give up. Keep those thoughts in your head as you merrily write along.

  17. Mialie

    Great article, but there’s a typo in the title of #8 (…lower youR guard…) which is ironic since it’s the one mentioning how important are the basics of grammar and mechanics!

    1. Zachary Petit Post author

      Mialie, thanks for reading and commenting. Re: “you(r)” – that was my (cheesy) attempt at being clever on the grammar point 😉

      1. Bookwrm89

        I’m happy to find out that was a deliberate error. I don’t think of myself as a troll but stuff like that really bothers me, especially on a site that’s all about improving writing! 😉

  18. Zachary Petit Post author

    Ha! True. If there’s ever a lull in Writer’s Digest’s publishing schedule, now you know why. Thanks for your note, Mark.

    And Stephanie: Thanks so much for reading and sharing your thoughts.

  19. Mark Haase

    I greatly enjoyed your article, but you broke the first rule of an upcoming article of mine, titled “15 Things a Senior Managing Editor Should Never Do.” Rule #1: Never cave in and join Twitter. Again, excellent article.


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