Henriette Anne Klauser Ph.D.
Ni doubt physical attraction is a driver behind choice, but the real motive is self gratification – or pride. When we’re searching for a partner it’s Self we seek to please. I think that’s well and good; you have to find someone who is willing to give what you need both emotionally and physically.
How many of us ever sought for “the one” with the criteria being: I will seek a partner whose life will be better for having chosen to spend it with me?
Real love doesn’t manifest right away. When you choose to live for somebody else – put aside Self – then you have loved somebody.