What does it mean to be quote unquote Publsihed in this Age?

For a long time I struggled with the idea of being published. I have my steady income from my work. I love to write and I know the literary world is a lot more interesting complex strange than its ever been with Kindle Direct Publishing, SmashWords, Kobo, Nook, Self Publishing with Create Space and Lulu, Kindles, Literary Agents, Newspapers, ijournals, online magazines, blogs, open mics and even "cough cough" online forums.
Throughout all of these mediums what constitutes being published. If I just want to be able to say I have been published. What does that mean?
It took me twelve years to come to the most basic conclusion. Being published in this new age is something simple. To me its being read. Do you agree.
If you write something and someone else reads it. That thing that you shared with someone and that they read is now published.
I developed a very simple and peaceful concept for myself to want to feel published. I needed to feel published. Looking back as it turns out I have been published for a long time. All of the papers I submitted and were read and commented on in University were published papers. The poetry I performed at open mics was published. The writing I shared with a friend was published writing.
Before when I was younger and there were actually book stores that I could visit and buy books in my hometown, I thought being published meant I had to get something in one of those buildings that was a product and that could be bought. Not an easy task. I had to get someone from New York City to read my writing, think it was good enough, invest in it, print it, slap a hard cover on it, and ship it back to my hometown into the bookstores so that I could feel published.
Now due to a lack of book stores its all more confusing if I want that same line of reasoning to be applied to myself to feel published. So I wrecked myself trying to mentally wrap my head around this confusing long winded process that led to nothing now that the book stores were gone. Its now impossible for me to become published the way I wanted to twelve years ago.
So I reimagined what published means to me. Its just being read. I can quite simply do this now. I can create a website for myself. Post some writing to it and if someone wants to know if I am published I can say yes I am. Ive been published. You can call it self publishing if you like but to me its just streamlined. How much can I do for myself without involving others so that I get what I want. I want people to feel something based on something I wrote knowing that what I write improves people's lives because of how much of myself I put into my writing. I write with feeling now so I know that my prose is solid. I know my poetry is off the charts amazing. I have received my awards for poetry.
Now I am studying journalism and prose and to pass off my writing to a friend from hand to hand and to know that my book is at least somewhere on someone's book shelf is published to me. I can do this with Create Space and with Lulu. I can guest blog for someone and receive feedback from a number of comments. That's published to me.
In light of the monumental changes to publishing I had to revaluate my conditions with which I allowed myself to feel published. The confusion led to heartache that the traditional route was usurped but now I enlightened myself to the though that its immensely easier to feel published and to say you are published now because there are many more outlets for publishing not least of which is hand to hand transference of writing to people you know.
I shared my writing with my uncle and he gave me feedback on my writing. I improved his life with my writing by giving him insight into his nephew.
What is publishing? I shared my thoughts above ... what does being published mean to you today now that the changes have occurred and they are here to stay.
Throughout all of these mediums what constitutes being published. If I just want to be able to say I have been published. What does that mean?
It took me twelve years to come to the most basic conclusion. Being published in this new age is something simple. To me its being read. Do you agree.
If you write something and someone else reads it. That thing that you shared with someone and that they read is now published.
I developed a very simple and peaceful concept for myself to want to feel published. I needed to feel published. Looking back as it turns out I have been published for a long time. All of the papers I submitted and were read and commented on in University were published papers. The poetry I performed at open mics was published. The writing I shared with a friend was published writing.
Before when I was younger and there were actually book stores that I could visit and buy books in my hometown, I thought being published meant I had to get something in one of those buildings that was a product and that could be bought. Not an easy task. I had to get someone from New York City to read my writing, think it was good enough, invest in it, print it, slap a hard cover on it, and ship it back to my hometown into the bookstores so that I could feel published.
Now due to a lack of book stores its all more confusing if I want that same line of reasoning to be applied to myself to feel published. So I wrecked myself trying to mentally wrap my head around this confusing long winded process that led to nothing now that the book stores were gone. Its now impossible for me to become published the way I wanted to twelve years ago.
So I reimagined what published means to me. Its just being read. I can quite simply do this now. I can create a website for myself. Post some writing to it and if someone wants to know if I am published I can say yes I am. Ive been published. You can call it self publishing if you like but to me its just streamlined. How much can I do for myself without involving others so that I get what I want. I want people to feel something based on something I wrote knowing that what I write improves people's lives because of how much of myself I put into my writing. I write with feeling now so I know that my prose is solid. I know my poetry is off the charts amazing. I have received my awards for poetry.
Now I am studying journalism and prose and to pass off my writing to a friend from hand to hand and to know that my book is at least somewhere on someone's book shelf is published to me. I can do this with Create Space and with Lulu. I can guest blog for someone and receive feedback from a number of comments. That's published to me.
In light of the monumental changes to publishing I had to revaluate my conditions with which I allowed myself to feel published. The confusion led to heartache that the traditional route was usurped but now I enlightened myself to the though that its immensely easier to feel published and to say you are published now because there are many more outlets for publishing not least of which is hand to hand transference of writing to people you know.
I shared my writing with my uncle and he gave me feedback on my writing. I improved his life with my writing by giving him insight into his nephew.
What is publishing? I shared my thoughts above ... what does being published mean to you today now that the changes have occurred and they are here to stay.