How I Got My Agent: Eve Brown-Waite

I am re-posting Eve’s column in honor of her
paperback coming out April 13, 2010.
Congrats, Eve! 


“How I Got My Agent” is a recurring feature on the GLA blog. I find it fascinating to see the exact road people took that landed them with a rep. Seeing the things people did right vs. what they did wrong (highs and the lows) can help other scribes who are on the same journey. Some tales are of long roads and many setbacks, while others are of good luck and quick signings.

To see
the previous installments of this column, click here.

If you have a literary agent and would be interested in writing a short guest column for this GLA blog, e-mail me at and we’ll talk specifics.



Guest column by memoir writer
Eve Brown-Waite, author of First Comes
Love, Then Comes Malaria



First, let me assure you that you do not need to have connections to get an agent. Nor do you need to hobnob with already published authors, or be famous, or have money. Nor, apparently, do you even need to know what the hell you’re doing.

Of course, no one believes me when I tell them how completely clueless I was when I began this endeavor. But it helps if you imagine a young mother with an undergraduate degree in political science and a graduate degree in public health (no literature or creative writing courses there) toiling away in the Third World while writing about toiling away in the Third World. Yup, that was me. No electricity, no running water, no writers’ group, no Internet access … no clue.

I was back in the states by the time the book was (I thought) finished, but I still didn’t have much of a clue. I suppose I could have integrated myself into a local writers’ group or sought out some resources on this newfangled thing called the Internet. But hell, I was struggling just to make my way through the supermarket without getting dizzy, and I still got giddy every time I picked up the telephone and got a dial tone! It just seemed easier to plod along on my own.


After blindly sending my manuscript off to a number of publishers, I learned that if I wanted to even approach a major publisher I’d first need an agent. So I bought that year’s Guide To Literary Agents and winnowed it down to about fifty agents who I thought might be matches. And then I proceeded to query them—one by one. Honestly, I’d wait for a response from each and every query letter before I’d go ahead and query the next agent on my list. And quite often that meant waiting months for some intern to pull my letter out of the slush pile and send me the standard rejection form. Yes, I was a very polite girl—and a very naïve author.

Needless to say, after three years of doing this, I’d only made it a quarter of the way through my now outdated list of agents. And it was while I was tracking down one particularly promising-looking agent, who’d opened up his own agency in the meantime, that I came across Laney Katz Becker. (By then I’d gotten a bit familiar with the whole Internet thingy.)

Laney was relatively new at the young agency (which I took to be good signs, as I thought she’d still be looking for new clients). She loved memoirs (another good sign) and especially those that transport the reader to an exotic location (Bingo! Or tic-tac-toe … I suppose the bingo would be that she liked books with a Jewish theme and she seemed to have a sense of humor). So I sent off a very funny query. I’d read somewhere that your query should reflect the tone of your book. Then I prayed.

Laney quickly wrote back and I sent her three sample chapters. Then I got my whole family praying. I should probably say right here that I am a Jewish, Humanist, Unitarian Universalist with pagan tendencies married to a proudly ex-communicated Catholic. So when I say “pray” it might not really be what you imagine. But we did send out positive energy into the Universe for Laney’s continued good health, and of course, that she’d like the book.


Soon Laney asked to see the entire proposal. My entire what? I asked. Your proposal, she answered and then went on to explain that nonfiction books are sold on proposal only. Surely you’ve written a proposal, she added. No, sadly, I’d only written an entire book. So I got myself several books on how to write a proposal and went to work. And when I finally sent my proposal to Laney, I had my entire e-mail list praying for Laney’s continued good health and that she’d love my proposal.

On March 15, 2007, Laney called. “I love your book,” she said. “I’d like to represent you.” Three and a half months (and several proposal revisions) later, Laney sold my book—at auction—in a six-figure deal. Me: An unknown author with no connections. Just some good writing, a lot of persistence and some prayers! Oh, and one great agent!




Eve Brown-Waite is the author of First Comes Love,
Then Comes Malaria: How a Peace Corps Poster
Boy Won My Heart and a Third World Adventure
Changed My Life, (2009, Broadway Books)
available in paperback on April 14, 2010.
See her author website here.

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11 thoughts on “How I Got My Agent: Eve Brown-Waite

  1. Erin

    I know at least one other memoirist who has taken the time to write a book proposal, but I am a little confused because the new edition of Writer’s Digest’s Formatting and Submitting Your Manuscript says at the beginning of chapters 2 and 10 that one should treat a memoir like a novel. Novelists don’t usually write a book proposal. Is this something that varies from agent to agent? Has this standard changed over time? Can anyone help clarify? Thanks!

  2. Eve Brown-Waite

    Thanks everyone for all your support and wonderful comments. Yes, I am living proof that hard work and persistence can get you published. So for those of you working toward that end, DO NOT GIVE UP. Keep working at your craft and improving. (I didn’t mention that every time I got a a rejection letter that contained any useful insight, I tried to use that to make my writing better.) But also do not let the rejections stop you.

    For those of you who enjoy the title of my book – there are about 90,000 more words that you’ll probably enjoy as well! Comes out in paperback next month, makes a GREAT book club read as well as a great gift for graduates and anyone thinking about heading off to save – or just to see – the world. And of course, I’d love to hear from you.

    Thanks again,

  3. John Austin


    I enjoyed your story detailing the path you took to finding a good agent! It was an interesting epic all by itself!

    I bet you found it quite interesting finding out about book proposals…They get quite detailed…

    The book I used & recommend RE nonfiction book proposals: "How to Sell, Then Write Your Nonfiction Book" by Blyth Camenson

    Sounds like you have a PhD in spirituality…The more so-called "religions" you are exposed to the closer to the "truth" (whatever that is?)you probably are! Find the commonality between them all & you’re probably home free…

  4. Christine Macdonald

    My eyes are tearing up with such pride, happiness and excitement for you. In a loud voice I say, "Atta Girl!".

    Thank you for this post – and thank you to Chuck for shining light on such stories.

    I am in the middle of writing my memoir and can’t say enough how inspiring your story is.



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